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Why it’s good:

Built for queer women, non‑binary and trans folks: the site describes it as “the #1 LGBTQIA+ Dating App” for lesbian, bi & queer women. HER+2App Store+2
Strong community features: beyond just dating, it includes interest‑groups, events, etc. HER+1
Large user base (15+ million in 114 countries) which means more chance of finding matches in various locations. HER
Caveats:
As with any large app, you may encounter profiles that are less relevant (straight couples, “unicorn” hunters) depending on your filters/settings.
Some users report issues with filtering and irrelevant matches. For example:
“HER has very few actual lesbians… the majority of the users are transgender people, cis men, and couples… I had to delete the app due to the amount of cisgender men interacting with me.” Reddit
So it helps to set your preferences carefully and use filters.

Why it’s good:

Very queer‑centric, focuses on text‑based “personals” style rather than just photos, which can reduce pressure and surface more personality. Wikipedia+2lex.lgbt+2
Good for friendship, community, and dating: the app doesn’t force just “hookup or relationship” framing. lex.lgbt+1
Caveats:
Because it’s less traditional / less image‑heavy, it may feel slower or different than swipe‑heavy apps; you’ll need to engage via posts and messages more actively.
Depending on your region, user density may vary (so fewer matches in rural/smaller‑town areas).

Why it’s good:

Inclusive of the full LGBTQ+ spectrum (lesbian, bi, trans, nonbinary) while offering dating + social‑network features. Quinn+1
Features live streaming and video calls as part of the mix, which may be useful if you prefer more dynamic engagement.
Caveats:
It’s not exclusively for queer women, so you’ll want to check your filters and preferences to ensure you’re matched with folks who align with your interests.

Why it’s good:

Specifically marketed for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women; includes verification features and compatibility tools. PinkNews+1
Large user base (reported millions of users) and more modern UI. LBS
Caveats:
As with any niche app, depending on your city/region the pool may be smaller than mainstream apps (so fewer matches or slower interaction).
Some users may prefer a more mainstream app feel — Zoe is more specialized.

Why it’s good:

While not lesbian‑exclusive, Bumble allows you to set preferences for women/non‑binary, and has a “women make the first move” dynamic, which many users appreciate. lex.lgbt+1
Because it’s more mainstream, the user base may be larger (so possibly more matches) depending on your location.
Caveats:
Because it’s not lesbian‑exclusive, you may still encounter users outside your target (straight men, etc) unless filters are well set.
Some users feel that the ratio of queer women may be lower compared to apps made specifically for them.

Set your filters/preferences early: specify your gender/sexuality interests (e.g., women only, non‑binary) so you don’t get unwanted matches.
Location matters: In smaller towns or less populated areas the user pool may be smaller, regardless of which app you pick.
Profile design matters: Apps that emphasize prompts (e.g., Lex, Zoe) tend to surface personality more than just photos, which can lead to better conversations.
Expect varying experiences: One app may work great in your city, another less so. It’s okay to try a few and see what feels best for you.
Be aware of “unicorn hunting” / couple profiles / irrelevant matches: On apps that aren’t exclusively for queer women, you may encounter more of these. Reddit discussions highlight this issue. Reddit+1
Safety first: Use apps with good moderation/verification (like Zoe claims). Meet in public if you choose to meet someone in person.
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket: You might try more than one app to see which vibe you prefer.

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